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At Step Four we resolutely looked for our own mistakes. Where had we been selfish, dishonest, self-seeking, and frightened? Though a given situation had not been entirely our fault, we often tried to cast the whole blame on the other person involved.
We finally saw that the inventory should be ours, not the other man's. So we admitted our wrongs honestly and became willing to set these matters straight.
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 67
We finally saw that the inventory should be ours, not the other man's. So we admitted our wrongs honestly and became willing to set these matters straight.
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 67
posted by Alcoholic Brain | 12:52 PM
5 Comments:
Having a real bad day.
The link for co-dependent.org doesnt work, and I cant find much when I google it.
I sabotaged my last two relationships. I didn't know if I wanted in or out of them. I never blamed totally the other persons involved, however. I knew full well what my part was. I want so much to make amends to, but for one of them, I think it would do me more harm than good, & I mean that literally. The other I have by email, & my post, I don't think it was accepted though. I'll do it eyeball to eyeball when the opportunity arises. That's the way it should be done.
... go for it
Search bravely my friend. Get it out!
its taken me a long time to see I have a part in every interaction or conflict---even if its only 1 per cent--I always have a part
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